Disclaimer: Don't take this seriously, I just like to talk.
"Sometimes, your opinion is the missing piece that helps others see the bigger picture."
I'm reintroducing something I started earlier this year which is sharing my random thoughts. Every Friday, I'm dropping a random list. This form of content allows me to write candidly while giving the tribe an opportunity to comment their random thoughts too.
Let's get into some things...
Fuck what these niggas want. What about what I want, which is a 100 bands and some red flowers and that's word to JT.
I love referring to my early 20’s as the time when I was a tiny tiny tot or a young warthog
When people start off a statement by saying “There’s been something on my mind lately,” I peep the b.s. Nine times out of time they’re about to say something that’s going to offend somebody or a group of people, then they'll be the victim when the feedback isn’t in their favor.
My main flaw is avoiding or ignoring things that I don’t want to deal with, especially if it’s going to make me emotional. I know it’s not a healthy coping mechanism but it allows me to keep anxiety at a minimum and maybe one day I’ll be ready to address certain things in therapy.
One thing I admire about men is their ability to prioritize themselves. They don’t do anything that’s not going to beneficial them in some way, shape, or form. They are the epitome of “I gotta put me first. I gotta put myself first Lucious.”
Everybody acts like they have the krabby patty formula for a successful relationship yet most femininity coaches or advice is from single people or somebody who’s in an unfavorable marriage/relationship. For example, Kirk & Rasheeda have no business giving martial advice, bitch please.
As a millennial I can admit we play too much, when are we going to start playing down the aisle.
Shout out to Meg for one of my new affirmations, “I get money, Imma star.”
I love when the girls take pictures with a bouquet of flowers. I have a Pinterest board dedicated to photoshoot ideas with roses.
I think everybody should mentally prepare themselves to look at some of their favs differently once more information is released regarding Diddy and “these parties.”
Anybody else love how Key Glock say “The Fuck”. He says it with so much passion.
It used to grind my gears when people said “You think you’re better than everybody else or you’re so bougie.” Now I don’t give a fuck. I standby the fact that I’ve made better life choices than others but with hard work, consistency, and dedication anybody can change their life.
I love 50 cent, but I see why he got shot 9 times.
I don’t get it when people try to say Nicki is too old to be so petty. Let’s be real for a second, how old are most of the housewives across all franchises.. hmm definitely her age or above. Also, when you think about the messy person in your family I guarantee it’s not anybody 40 and under.
Validating yourself isn’t rooted in shaming other people.
I know bonnets in public aren’t ladylike but hear me out, bonnets protect your hair and it’s easier to sleep on the plane or show up at your final destination ready to hit the streets vs. having to get right at the airport or spending time getting ready once you get settled.
Nobody’s happy 24/7 but happiness is a choice, remember that.
It’s 2024, and one of my bff and I still want to live out our dreams of being a video vixen. Don’t be surprised if you see a video of me & her on Youtube thinking we’re Melysa Fords & Bria Myles.
The sooner women accept that their homegirl is a Rasheeda the better off their friendship will be.
I appreciate how Ulta has a diversified staff and features black owned brands on their website. They’re one of the few brands/companies that continued to be sincere after everything the height of Black Lives Matter in 2020.
I don’t believe in giving men a deadline to propose or get his shit together. In the words of Kendrick “sometimes you gotta pop out and show niggas.”
A lot of people on/offline are miserable because they refuse to change, then they resent people who had the courage to move forward, but deep down they’re really just mad at themselves.
My future wedding reception is going to give “Paris in the springtime” and people who understand that statement are my kind of people.
At the end of the day I don’t enjoy being independent, and until I get a man I will continue to rely on my daddy.
I read a comment that said “You don’t find yourself, you create yourself,” I like that perspective.
"Not all who wander are lost; some are just exploring their own thoughts."
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