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My Heart, My Way: The Pinkprint of Black Love I Crave
Disclaimer: What I want and what you want are two different things. Also post election thoughts is coming next week. "All I want is to...
Erica Nicole
Nov 14, 20244 min read


First Date Chemistry with Somebody's Son
Disclaimer: I was in a good mood when I started writing this, then I got in my feelings. "A weekend getaway and a date night in another...
Erica Nicole
May 16, 20248 min read


Lover Girl Era
Disclaimer: I'm evolving and so will my views on certain things. This post is for me to remember when I manifested everything that I...
Erica Nicole
Feb 13, 20245 min read


You can't tell me nothing bout' my man
Disclaimer: No matter your relationship status I hope by the end that you'll have clarity on how to move forward. I'm also aware that...
Erica Nicole
Feb 1, 20247 min read


For the girls who prioritize men over everything
Disclaimer: My audience is black women and I love us for real, but today's topic is necessary. Everything I'm about to say is from love....
Erica Nicole
May 20, 20239 min read


No more struggle love: The reality of dating a broke man
Disclaimer: I like both ladies who's name will be mentioned today and if you support dusty men this post is not for you. "High standards...
Erica Nicole
May 6, 20236 min read


Course correcting the dating scene
Disclaimer: If you're new here please know don't debate me, debate your muva. "If y'all see me in love just know that mf applied...
Erica Nicole
Apr 25, 20239 min read


Somebody's Son Fumbled Valentine's Day
Disclaimer: For once this story isn't about me but I was brought into a situation that needs to be talked about. "If he wanted to, he...
Erica Nicole
Feb 18, 20235 min read


Happy Valentine's Day: My Favorite Vday memory + Ideal Date
“Some days I want to be in love, some days I wanna be to myself.” I still believe in love and black love is a beautiful thing. Yes this...
Erica Nicole
Feb 14, 20232 min read


Certified Lover Girl
Disclaimer: Don't be bitter, be happy. “Love is so beautiful and multifaceted.” - Xonecole February is the unofficial month of love and...
Erica Nicole
Feb 11, 20236 min read


Submission vs. Modern Day Slavery
Disclaimer: I told myself I was done speaking on relationship stuff because the podcast era has ran relationship topics into the ground...
Erica Nicole
Jul 9, 20225 min read


Gettin' Flewed out for the Weekend: 10 Rules for a Fly Out
Disclaimer: I’m speaking from the average American income which can range from $44k-$68k. Fly outs are different from baecations and...
Erica Nicole
Jun 4, 20226 min read


Always Be My Maybe: Somebody's Son Update
Announcement: I said I wasn’t writing about somebody’s son this year, but y’all love it & for the most part I enjoy talking about my...
Erica Nicole
May 24, 20224 min read


F##K N***a Free All Summer 2022
“And I'm S-I-N-G-L-E again (yup). Outside hanging out the window, with my ratchet-ass friends” - Glorilla Ladies and Gents hot girl...
Erica Nicole
May 21, 20225 min read


A lot of the dating rules are cap & I'm sick of it
"I'm sick of you niggas, and I'm tired of you bitches" - Erica Nicole Disclaimer: I haven’t gone on a rant in a while but this post is...
Erica Nicole
Apr 30, 20226 min read


If my man calls, will girl's night be over?
Disclaimer: I mean the word bitches in a nice and endearing way. “I don’t know nothing about that lifestyle or whatever y’all got going...
Erica Nicole
Apr 21, 20224 min read


F##king for Free...Absolutely Not
"Sorry, If a man don't buy me shit, take me out, and show me a good time I will never like him." - Ericka J. I never thought at 26 years...
Erica Nicole
Jan 29, 20225 min read


How I'm coping with the dating scene
"Don't forget to come and pick up your, ooh, feelings" - Jazmine Sullivan Recently, every time I think about my dating life I want to...
Erica Nicole
Jan 15, 20224 min read


Somebody's son thought I was going half with him: Story time Edition
"A weekend getaway and a date night in another city is what she wants." - Unknown Disclaimer: I HOPE HE READS THIS SHIT AHAHA! So March...
Erica Nicole
Dec 18, 20214 min read


Somebody’s son proposed chileee
"Find you a man who will love you like Noah loves Allie." My dating life has always been interesting and I can't believe I've never...
Erica Nicole
Nov 6, 20218 min read
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